[Release-7.3] Cherrypick Add connection counters (#12292)

[kakaiu]

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[foundationdb-ci]

Result of foundationdb-pr-clang-arm on Linux CentOS 7

• Commit ID: d77843d
• Duration 0:04:54
• Result: ❌ FAILED
• Error: Error while executing command: ninja -v -C build_output -j ${NPROC} all packages strip_targets. Reason: exit status 1
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[foundationdb-ci]

Result of foundationdb-pr-clang on Linux RHEL 9

• Commit ID: d77843d
• Duration 0:05:01
• Result: ❌ FAILED
• Error: Error while executing command: ninja -v -C build_output -j ${NPROC} all packages strip_targets. Reason: exit status 1
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[foundationdb-ci]

Result of foundationdb-pr-cluster-tests on Linux RHEL 9

• Commit ID: d77843d
• Duration 0:06:52
• Result: ❌ FAILED
• Error: Error while executing command: ninja -v -C build_output -j ${NPROC} all packages strip_targets. Reason: exit status 1
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[foundationdb-ci]

Result of foundationdb-pr on Linux RHEL 9

• Commit ID: d77843d
• Duration 0:07:07
• Result: ❌ FAILED
• Error: Error while executing command: ninja -v -C build_output -j ${NPROC} all packages strip_targets. Reason: exit status 1
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• Build Workspace zip file of the working directory (available for 30 days)