Do not stop the server in onModuleDestroy hook

[sergVedmak]

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Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe it

We're need keeping the GraphQL server running after a SIGTERM is received. This behavior can be implemented using beforeApplicationShutdown hook, handling SIGTERM

But before calling beforeApplicationShutdown, onModuleDestroy is triggered and the server is closed, which in my opinion is not implemented correctly lifecycle sequence - stop http listeners should be after beforeApplicationShutdown

Describe the solution you'd like

Move stop sever in onApplicationShutdown hook

Teachability, documentation, adoption, migration strategy

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What is the motivation / use case for changing the behavior?

Keeping the GraphQL server running after a SIGTERM is received

[sergVedmak]

#3433 (comment) same problem